Meeting singles online for casual sex and hookups should be fun and exciting, not stressful or dangerous. At CandyList, safety is our top priority. Here's how to protect yourself while enjoying Canada's best free casual dating platform.
Before You Meet: Online Safety
Protect Your Personal Information
- Don't share your full name until you're comfortable
- Use CandyList's messaging instead of giving out your phone number immediately
- Avoid sharing your address or workplace details
- Be cautious with social media - don't link profiles that reveal too much
Verify Who You're Talking To
CandyList includes verification features, but you should also:
- Video chat before meeting in person
- Ask for recent photos
- Trust your instincts - if something feels off, it probably is
- Report suspicious profiles to our moderation team
Planning Your First Meetup
Choose Public Places First
Always meet someone new in a public location:
- Coffee shops or restaurants
- Busy bars or pubs
- Public parks during daytime
- Shopping centers or malls
Tell Someone Where You're Going
Let a trusted friend or family member know:
- Who you're meeting
- Where you're going
- When you expect to be back
- Share your location if possible
During the Date
Stay in Control
- Arrange your own transportation - don't rely on your date
- Watch your drink at all times
- Stay sober enough to make clear decisions
- Keep your phone charged and accessible
Trust Your Gut
If anything feels wrong, leave immediately. Your safety is more important than being polite. A genuine person will understand if you need to cut things short.
Intimate Encounters
Practice Safe Sex
When moving to intimate situations:
- Always use protection
- Discuss boundaries beforehand
- Respect each other's limits
- Keep emergency contacts accessible
Stay at Your Place or a Hotel
If you're ready to take things private, consider:
- Meeting at your place gives you more control
- Hotels provide neutral territory
- Avoid going to someone's home on the first meeting
Using CandyList's Safety Features
Block and Report
CandyList makes it easy to:
- Block users who make you uncomfortable
- Report suspicious or inappropriate behavior
- Control who can see your profile
- Hide or unhide your profile anytime
Privacy Controls
Manage your visibility:
- Choose who can message you
- Hide specific profile details
- Control photo visibility
- Adjust location sharing settings
Red Flags to Watch For
Be cautious if someone:
- Pressures you to meet immediately
- Refuses to video chat or share recent photos
- Asks for money or financial information
- Gets aggressive or disrespectful
- Won't meet in public places
- Has inconsistent stories or details
City-Specific Safety Tips
Different cities have different dynamics. Check our city guides:
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