Not all casual connections are the same. Understanding what you want - and what others are seeking - makes CandyList work better for everyone.
One-Night Stands
What it is: A single sexual encounter with no expectation of seeing each other again.
- Most spontaneous option
- Zero commitment
- Often happens same day/night
- Common after bars or parties
Casual Hookups
What it is: Regular sexual meetups without romantic commitment.
- See each other occasionally
- Primarily physical connection
- No relationship expectations
- Might text to arrange meetups
Friends with Benefits (FWB)
What it is: Friends who also have sex, no romantic relationship.
- Actual friendship exists
- Might hang out without sex
- Ongoing arrangement
- Requires communication about boundaries
Casual Dating
What it is: Dating multiple people without commitment.
- Go on actual dates
- Get to know each other
- May or may not involve sex
- Not exclusive
What Canadians Want
According to CandyList users:
- 45% seek regular casual hookups
- 30% prefer one-time encounters
- 15% want friends with benefits
- 10% casual dating/exploring
Be Clear About Your Intentions
In your profile, mention:
- What type of connection you want
- How often you'd like to meet
- Whether you want ongoing or one-time
Before meeting, discuss:
- Expectations for the encounter
- Boundaries and comfort levels
- Whether you'll stay in touch
Regional Differences
- Toronto & Vancouver: Fast-paced, more one-time hookups
- Montreal: Open to friends with benefits
- Smaller cities: More likely to seek regular arrangements
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